Sometimes when I'm walking around the reservoir at Mt. Tabor Park (my old neighborhood), I see an athlete. You wouldn't know she was an athlete just by looking at her. She's at least as old as I am, with saggy cheeks and crepe-skin knees. But after seeing her workout routine, I can only watch in awe.
Reservoir No. 6 is .56 miles around the perimeter. You can call it a half mile. The woman starts out with lunges. Not super deep, but lunges all the same, slowly and persistently, with bicep curls, all the way around the reservoir. How she keeps her balance, I have no idea. She makes a full circuit.She doesn't stop there. After a swig of water, she starts around again, this time with high knees. All the way around. She's not fast. I pass her multiple times as I stumble around, head down against the wind. I go counterclockwise. She goes clockwise. Each time I pass her, I feel like a colossal loser.
After she finishes half a mile of high knees, she turns around and walks backwards, doing butt kickers. She checks behind her from time to time, so she doesn't run into anyone, but her backward glances are kind of pro forma. She can't go far off course. The reservoir is surrounded by a tall iron fence. Still, I wouldn't be surprised if she has eyes in the back of her head. I suspect she has god-like powers.
I walk around four times, just a regular head-down, try-to-stay-upright kind of walk. Everytime we pass each other, I look at her, but she doesn't look at me. I can't read her expression. It's clear she is focused on the motion.
Whenever I complain about my saggy butt and flabby thighs, I think of this athlete. I wonder about her story. Is she a marathon runner? I haven't seen her run. She's too thin to be a wrestler. Her bike shorts and T-shirt don't scream fashion risk taker. She's not taking video of herself, so she's not a YouTuber. What's her story?
My conclusion is, she's meditating. She's found a way to connect with something bigger than herself. I called her an athlete, but I could just as easily call her a Zen Master. A guru. A Yoda. I have a feeling if I could just get her to make eye contact, I would see a new way of being.
Meanwhile, I'm caught up in my own way of being, floundering through my days doing the next thing in front of me. The usual, you know: Working with my new PCP to find a medication that will settle my vestibular system. Keeping my car running. Learning how to use Amazon lockers. Waiting on waitlists for housing. Waking up at 4:00 a.m., vigilantly listening for gas thieves. Trying to stay under the radar so homeowners don't call the police to report an old lady who has the temerity to sleep in her car outside their house.
I'm really tired of hiding. I have started putting stickers on my car windows: Artsy fartsy; Wild and free; Take the long way home, shortcuts miss the view; All cultures, beliefs, colors, sizes, ages, identities welcome; and my personal favorite, Jesus loves everyone you hate. I'm going to keep adding to my collection. If I get some money ahead, I will have my own designs printed. I have lots of ideas for stickers, mostly along the lines of How's my driving? Call 1-800-BiteMe.
After I find out if my new med is going to kill me, I think I'll head east, back toward the high desert of Northern Arizona, where the nomads wait out the summer heat. I met a man at the protest yesterday, who said he loved Portland for its beauty, diversity, and energy. I nodded as if I agreed. No need to start a fight with a No Kings comrade, especially given the no-violence mandate. Besides, I don't need to explain or justify myself, although when cornered, that is my usual response.
I don't trust my intuition. I believe Portland is not the place for me. I always knew I would leave. It still confounds me that everytime I left, I came back. When I moved to Tucson, I was ready to love the place. For four years, I tried. Eventually I realized Tucson was not the place for me either (see umpteen previous blog posts).
The country is big. I've live in only big cities. Surely, somewhere in this country, there is a small place that feels right. Family and friends warn me that small town folks might not be like me. That's okay. All my friends are online.
Having said all that, if my name comes up on a waitlist, I don't care where the place is. As long as it has hot water and no cockroaches, I'm saying yes.